Brothers,

Today I have a short story for you people and I want you to listen and think alone.

That lady you're dating

That lady you call your girlfriend

If you stop checking up on her first,

If you stop calling or texting her first,

WILL THE RELATIONSHIP DIE?

If your answer is YES

Then you know you're in the wrong place.

A guy I know once died, the supposed lady he was dating didn't get to know this until two weeks after his death (when he was to be buried)

When asked why she didn't check up for that two weeks he was dead.

She said she thought it was the duty of a man to always check up on a woman.

This guy loved this lady. Provided for her. Sorted her bills. Always checked up on her.

But unknown to him, he was dating himself all along.

And when he had an accident that claimed his life, the lady he catered for was no where to be found.

His story was a lesson for me.

This is why you should go 3-4 days without texting or calling that lady you're dating.

If she doesn't check up on you in that period, then you're dating yourself.

A lady that loves you wants your attention badly. She'll go crazy without it.

If she's not reciprocating the energy you're giving her, she's storing them up for another guy.

And that is why you should stop watering dead plants & move on with your life.